Swingers
Swingers are people who have sex for fun. These folks have made peace with issues of religious and social morality, which usually direct sex for procreation only or limit partners to monogamous relations. Swingers will tell you that getting intimate with strangers is about the most fun you can have. Couples who swing actively seek like-minded pairs, with the goal of swapping partners. Sexual adventure usually ensues, since the adrenaline rush of the "first time" is present in these swinging encounters. There are thousands of swingers clubs and venues nationwide.
Synonyms: In the Lifestyle, Open Relationship, Partner Swapping, Playmates
See Also: Dating, Exhibitionist, Fantasy, Fetish, Group Sex, Monogamy, Taboo
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| Swinging can be a good adventure if your partnership is strong and you are fully committed to one another. It is not recommended by those in the lifestyle to swing if your partnership is anything less than rock solid, since exposure to other people can create the tension to end a so-so relationship. That said, the Internet makes it easy to find swinging events. Watching others openly flirt with, or even having sex with your partner will instantly heighten your awareness of how attractive they really are. The opportunity for intense communication that occurs around these very open-minded events is another aspect of what makes swinging so intimate. Nothing short of honesty is safe for lovers who swing. It raises the bar for truth telling to heights unheard of by the safely monogamous. |
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