Spanking
To spank is to slap or smack the buttocks soundly, usually with an open hand, perhaps hard and loud enough to raise a cherry red glow. This mostly humiliating experience from childhood is quite different as a prelude to sex between two consenting adults, and is a highly recommended practice in the ancient sex manual, The Kama Sutra. Light swats with the hand will raise a tingly flush to the skin, enhancing all sensation in the surrounding area. Exploring further, spankings can be administered with any number of props on hand: the flat of a hairbrush, a spare ping pong paddle, or the old standby, the wooden ruler. When asked, most adults report they enjoy the prospect of giving and/or receiving a playful spanking as a prelude to sex.
Synonyms: Beat, Flog, Punish, Whack
See Also: Bondage, Buttocks, Fantasy, Fetish, Massage, S/M, Sex Toy, Taboo
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| Ooooh, here’s a favorite of mine. A good spanking is more than just frisky foreplay for certain kinds of sex. Playful spanking sessions will help you feel out your level of trust with your partner, and to discover how well you can read each other to find “just the right amount”. It's not, however, recommended by experts for couples to give real, punitive spankings to each other, so talk should always be fantasy oriented, never about "you bounced the check book again!" Like all forms of play that involve levels of trust, know your partner’s limits while having fun! |
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