Foreplay
Foreplay is any activity (physical or emotional) that creates a state of sexual arousal as a prelude to intercourse. Usually it is a series of small physical intimacies, which when strung together like pearls, create a sensuous longing in the body. Intimate conversation, slow dancing, a shared meal or massage can be a form of "warming up" for sex. Non-rushed foreplay often opens the door to a hot makeout session, which in turn is followed by a gratifying sexual exchange. Great lovers know that extended foreplay builds up energy in the body, for the stronger release of a full body orgasm.
Synonyms: Teasing, Warming Up
See Also: Aphrodisiac, Dance, Fantasy, Fuck, Kiss, Lingerie, Massage, Masturbation (Mutual), Romance, Seduction, Sex, Tantra
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| One of the wisest things I ever heard said about the sexual difference between men and women was from marriage guru Gary Smalley. He said, “When it comes to sex, men are microwave ovens, women are more like a crock-pot.” In other words, if you want the full meal deal later today, you should start turning her on NOW. Foreplay matters A LOT to women. Start early and take lots of time. A gift of time is a gift of love. Incorporate foreplay into your day with sexy undergarments on parade while dressing (or undressing). Make teasing phone calls or fondle each other in the dark at the movies! Intermittent kissing and sucking of the lips or tongue is a good start. Nibble the ear, play with tendrils of hair, breathe along the neck, and trace your lover's body with your fingertips or tongue. Simply touch and explore every inch of the body, and don’t go near intercourse for at least an hour. You’ll feel the difference in the amount of orgasmic energy you and your partner experience at release. |
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