Fantasy
A fantasy can be anything within the spectrum of an imaginary story to an outright hallucination. In the realm of adult play, a fantasy is playing out an imaginary story as a means of sexual stimulation, either in your head (as in an erotic fantasy) or in the flesh (as in fantasy role-play). When playing out a fantasy in the flesh, people agree to become someone else, interacting in a completely new way. Fantasies tap into your playful self and breathe life into long-term relationships by breaking patterns of interaction. A good place to start with fantasy exploration is to tune in to a long forgotten childhood hero. Fantasy role-play is also a good way to explore power exchange, new positions and attitudes, all in a safe 'temporary' moment which doesn’t offend the primary relationship.
Synonyms: Games, Play Sex, Pretend, Role Play, Sex Play
See Also: Bondage, Dom/Sub, Erotica, Fetish, Kinky, Lingerie, Phone Sex, S/M, Striptease, Taboo, Virtual Sex
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| Have a date just to explore your fantasies. Read aloud your favorite erotica or Penthouse letter, or show your all-time favorite porn scene and discuss what parts turn you on. Discuss with your partner playing out a similar scene together. What might you wear? What might be said? Who should have the power? Will you change power positions during the scene? Simply establish when and where the fantasy date will take place and have fun anticipating the event by gathering the props and costumes you need to play the role of your choice. Grown-up kids can 'dress-up and play' in their own world of make-believe. Imagination is the key as well as a willingness to believe the story together. This can be really fun and much sexier than Star Trek re-runs! |
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